Give your beard a proper brush. Not metaphorically, but literally. This one from Beviro is made from pear wood and features medium-hard boar bristles - they're tough enough not to scratch, but can also guide even the most unruly beard.
The beard brush will help you get your beard into shape after showering, and it will also help you spread oil or conditioner throughout the length of your beard. It's also addictively enjoyable. But don't overdo it, 1-2 times a day is enough.
Made in the Czech Republic. Like all Beviro products.